Friday 3rd July 2009

by Nussaïbah Raja
I wish I had a time machine

The wedding preparations are still going on, but we are kinda relieved since all the clothes and shoes have been packed. Right now, it’s the henna application time, my favourite. I’ve always loved having henna applied to my hands, ever since I was a little girl. And here in my house, we’ve been very lucky since my aunt is a professional at doing this job. When we were kids, my cousins and I, she would usually use us as lab rats to test her new henna she made or designs and we would simply love it.

What is even more wonderful is to wake up in the morning to see that it’s gone all dark red or near black.. The first thing I would usually do is rush to my mother’s room to show her how dark the henna on my hand is. Sometimes we would even compare our hands to see which is darker. There is this saying that the darker the colour comes, the more your husband loves you, which is why there were times I’d tell her that Dad loves us very much (I did want to marry my dad when I was little). I still do tell her that and she always smiles when I do.

If there’s another thing I love, it’s how everyone pampers me; you can’t usually use your hands if the henna hasn’t dried up yet and that’s when you can take advantage of everyone. *smirks* During these times, my father is at my beck and call, ready to do anything I ask of him, now isn’t that heaven?

Well, I was in heaven yesterday. My aunts took more than two hours to complete everything and it was worth every second spent waiting. It was very cold though, and the cold lizard that I am was even colder. It didn’t help that I wasn’t able to wear a pullover or something, so I just had my dad to put a small blanket over me, which didn’t do anything really.

Hurry up, it’s cold
Is it over yet?

I wanted my hands to go really dark, which is why I’ve tried to keep them warm all the time. Yesterday, when the henna dried up, I converted my father’s new socks into gloves (he doesn’t have to know they were his new socks) and have been wearing them since then. I’ve, of course, switched to plastic gloves when handling water since I do no want them to get wet and my precious woolen gloves when I was out. Everybody was looking at me, thinking that I must have been really cold but then, they didn’t know the truth behind the gloves…

My efforts have really paid, okay maybe my father’s, since he was the one who applied lime juice and balm to my hands which have turned real dark and would be even darker tomorrow. It would be perfect. For now, it’s my mother’s turn to be pampered…

Will it turn darker?
Will it turn darker?

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11 Responses to “Henna Heaven”

  1. Riihele says:

    Hei Nus

    Such pretty henna hands you have got there!
    Takes some skill to do these kind of intricate designs, i say.

    Keep so safe and well.

  2. Nussaïbah says:

    Some of it still can be seen if you look at it closely, but most of is gone now. About 2 weeks I’d say.

    I don’t really like the glitter thing, it’s just something that simply sticks to the hand and it’s really not practical…

  3. aline says:

    I love the design! :) How long did the mehendi last before it faded completely?

    I kinda prefer the color when the mehendi is first applied and is starting to dry. I’ve seen designs where people use some kind of gold glitter too.

  4. boomparwez says:

    @bruno: Well.. it depends on how you see a girl my dear.. apparently you are not so in touch with culture my friend..

  5. Bruno says:

    :) do mehendis really make a woman more attractive? not really convinced

  6. Lisa's Chaos says:

    Awesome! It looks great! And will be nice and dark! I love that you used to rush to mom’s bed and tell her that dad loved you since it turned so dark. :)

  7. Kurt Avish says:

    Beautiful mehendi’s :-)

  8. morinn says:

    Wow your henna turned out really dark! :P Lucky you. I really love the design.
    I wanted to marry my dad too when I was a kid. Hehe. He represented the perfect guy!

  9. sayuka says:

    Awww, that’s a real sweet post! The Henna is sooo pretty! You’re lucky to have such a skilled aunty! As for the story about the darkness of the colour, it’s the first time I’m hearing it! Or maybe I didn’t care to listen, like always :D

    And I think you’re lucky to be a cold lizard as you say ’cause then, when the henna gets dark, it stays that way for quite a while! For someone like me, with warm (and moist) hands, the henna always pales the next day! :( Which is why I hate applying henna!! :D Though being pampered when having henna applied to your hands is Heaven, that’s for sure!

    As for wanting to marry your dad, now why doesn’t that surprise me a bit? xD

    Well, hope you have lots of fun at the wedding! :)

  10. boomparwez says:

    heyy ! the henna is sooo beautiful ! are you sure its not you getting married ? i think the bride will be jealous :P :P :P

    Chek Kaftan :P

    hope you have fun at the wedding :) take care :)

  11. Timi Reeder says:

    Wow, it looks so beautiful :-) ; the intricacy of the design is just amazing, and its application is flawless :-) . Your aunt is very skilled in this field =) . Many. many, many years ago, I went to the wedding of one of my friend’s sisters, and was simply awestruck at the beauty of her henna’d hands; there is nothing quite like it, and yours are truly beautiful :-)

    I love the story over how dark the colour eventually turns, and the story of wanting to marry your dad really made me smile :-P . Maybe we do judge all of our loves against our parents :-P . The pampering you are receiving must be pure joy :-P

    Your secret technique of sock/glove protection is truly ingenious :-P ; I hope that they go as dark as possible for you :-)

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