Friday 24th April 2009

by Nussaïbah Raja

Not the movie. My life these past few days, along with other stuffs as well, and it isn’t over yet. It’s amazing how in a few seconds, everything changes completely, from the slow lane to the fast track. One second, I was lying on the couch, watching a movie and the other, I was moving from place to place, with my bag of clothes and laptop as company.

While I really have fun during this holiday from the holidays, I must admit, there’s no better place than home, especially my room. I literally dropped dead as soon as I came home on Tuesday, because I was so tired. My 4 year-old niece can be a real brat sometimes, and it doesn’t help she is pampered by everyone, being the youngest one of the family, and the only one from her generation… I wonder what she is going to do when my nephew is going to be born in June. It could be a niece as well, of course, but… we really are rooting for a baby boy this time, it gets tiring to only see girls in the family.

On the bright side, I managed to spend with my cousins… niece, brothers-in-law, aunts, uncles… friends… that sure makes a lot of people. Well, I do have a really big family and it’s getting bigger, with all those weddings. Is it the wedding season or what? Everyone single person in the family is getting married, one after the other, even those sworn to celibacy. I’m starting to think it’s going to be my turn soon if I don’t get away from here quickly… since there already were weird women looking at me… weirdly… at the yearly reunion organised near uncle’s place, famous for the wedding proposals my cousins get each year. I’m so glad I managed to escape…

I had to return home early, on Tuesday, because my mother needed me for some stuff; secretly, I was thanking God for this miracle, else I’d still be here, trying to cope with all those people. I like it when it’s quiet, after all I’m used to staying alone, which might be why after some time, I started feeling uneasy. I had to share a bed with my cousin, who spends half the night talking to her fiancé and whose mattress was so thin that I would get backaches everyday. I was going crazy; it was like I developed some sleep disorder; I started talking in my sleep, getting nightmares and I would wake up really early, even if I went to bed really late, at night. Glad to see the problem is over, or at least, I think it is.

As I said, these hectic days aren’t over yet. Tomorrow is yet another busy day, with 2 weddings and the funeral. My uncle’s brother just died, about 20 days after their mother passed away. I wonder if I’ll manage to squeeze the book fair held at the Caudan Waterfront tomorrow, somewhere in between.

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5 Responses to “Four Weddings and A Funeral”

  1. Lareine says:

    well, not only is the crowd “stressing” for you, but i think also the idea that they’re waiting for you to announce an engagement soon:)… in any case, you’re still young, so i don’t think the “questioning” stares would be given in your direction anytime soon…

    and i’m sorry to hear about your uncle’s brother and mother… well, enjoy being at home… especially your bed :)

  2. Nussaïbah says:

    @ Sayuka
    And you know me and… dressing up… Simply hate that *pukes*

    @ Timi
    Ahhh, the joys of one’s own bed. I don’t really have any problem sleeping anywhere else, but I do get… crazy :D

    @ Morinn
    Awww, I hope he manages to escape :p I didn’t manage to go to the book fair, might go if it’s held at Mahebourg Waterfront or Vacoas.

  3. morinn says:

    I think Jevin will relate totally to this post as he is stuck at his grandma’s place for some ceremonies and he badly wants to go home. :D
    I remember last year I was in a somewhat similar situation, the things I was missing the most were my bed and my desk, cause even if I hate doing homeworks, I kind of feel guilty when I can’t do them properly.
    Hope you’ve managed to go to the book fair, there were lots of people there today. :)

  4. Timi Reeder says:

    Yikes – that does sound like a very hectic schdule; I’m always amazed at how events always seem to combine themselves into such short periods of time, I guess weddings are no exception :D

    The best part about returning home really is coming back to your own bed; I’m so finely tuned into mine, I can hardly sleep anywhere else :p

    I’m very sorry about your uncle’s brother and his mother – it’s really horrible when such losses take place so close to each other :(

    I hope you will be able to get to the book fair :) – a book fair by a Mauritian waterfront sounds like a small piece of Heaven :)

  5. sayuka says:

    LOL at this post! I totally understand how you feel! It was like that for me this past two weeks! I hated having to dress up and wearing what I dubbed “war-paint” (a.k.a makeup) :P Not to mention heels and useless handbags that just couldn’t remain on my shoulders… (It felt like I was someone else -.-)Not to mention, going to weddings where people are always gossiping and looking at you weirdly ’cause you decided not to conform to their vision of fashion! I’m glad it’s all over now! Thank god I can now go back to my T-shirts, shorts, jeans and flip-flops!

    Well, sad to hear about your uncle’s brother and their mother… :( That sure is terrible…

    Anyway, all I can say, is good luck with those hectic days ahead, you’ll need it! :) And I’ve got to agree with you, one’s own bed is heaven :D

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